So Chris gets this call from his friend today, let's call him John. John begins by asking the world's most simplest question, "Why is Nika talking shit about me to her girls?" And the issue began.

Let's get this straight, before anyone goes around accusing me of doing something, get your fucking facts right. I don't appreciate the fact that I'm being pointed fingers at just as much as John didn't like being talked about. But you know what John, regardless of who the fuck you are, people talk, and that's the first thing you learn about life. You know what you do in these situation, be the better person and grow the fuck up. I do, it's not that hard. By all means, I'm not not saying you shouldn't confront them, just do so in the right manner.

I listened to everything you had to say in that phone conversation, I heard it all and I even understand where you were coming from. However it was obvious you couldn't sit through a word I had to say to explain my side of the story, so you know what, I'm not even gonna bother with this, I'll let Chris handle it because he's your friend.

I am a respectful person who is considerate enough to keep my mouth shut when someone is telling me something I shouldn't know. Point for Nika. If by saying, "John is a nice guy, I just don't think you should get too close to him because there are stuff about him you don't know,"  and looking out for your girlfriend was so fucking wrong, you can just fucking shoot me in the head right now because I won't even bother anymore. I just won't. I had the decency to inform my friend in the most polite way possible, I could have went full out and talked a whole lot of crap about you, but surprise, I didn't. Two points for Nika.

And in response to my friend's remark in saying how "people should own up to what they say," I completely agree, hence why I am not afraid to let John know of what I said, however it just comes to show how even a good deed sometimes doesn't get you anywhere. Best recommendation for life kids, just keep your mouth shut, even if you were just trying to look out for a friend, your input is apparently not necessary. My intentions were never to restrict you from getting to know John, like the cliche "never judge a book by it's cover," be my guest, get to know him like your life depended on it for all I care, I just wanted to make sure you knew what you were getting yourself into, period. If you people see a wrong in that, my apologies, from now on I will remember that showing concern for a friend is a waste of time.

If I got a dollar for every time people stayed out of my business, I wouldn't need to work another single day of my life. But that's human instincts you see, its inevitable. So in saying what you do is your business and nobody else's, you might as well assassinate the whole living population to make that statement anywhere near true. Your actions are bound to affect people, it affects the people directly and indirectly involved in the situation. Again, you're always gonna get a lot of people talking, sometimes good and sometimes not so pleasant. We've all been there, it's not foreign to any of us. You just gotta learn to accept it.

To conclude, I'm so fucking over it, I don't have time to deal with another unnecessary High School dilemma. I want nothing to do with any of this anymore so trust me in saying, your names will never come out of my mouth again regardless the situation or conversation. I see nothing, I hear nothing. Are you all fucking happy now?

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